Finding My Connections

First Mennonite Church, Vineland, Ontario

On my father’s side of the family, the paternal line runs back to 17th century Bucks County, Pennsylvania and a small group of German Mennonites. In a pioneer story similar to the ones I wrote about in Muskoka’s Main Street, seven families made the trek in 1799 from Hilltown to the raw wilderness that dominated the Niagara peninsula at that time.

This is a 400 mile walk we’re talking about. Done four times by two of the men in the party; first during the summer on a “prospecting tour” when they bought 1100 acres of land, some on the Niagara escarpment and some lying near the shores of Lake Ontario. On the second trip, they brought seven families, each of whom had a four-horse team and a cow. My connection in the group is with John Honsberger, said to be a tailor; his 18-year-old son Christian would father my great-great grandmother Magdalena.

Unlike the pioneers of Muskoka, these folks at least had decent farmland to homestead. Still, the first winter was a severe one, with food shortages and inadequate shelter. At least one young child perished the first year.

Looking at the maternal line (my dad’s mother), the grand ancestor was “Weaver John” Fretz, also of Bucks County, Pennsylvania. His son, “Canada John” Fretz made the same trek to Niagara as the Honsbergers did, one year later in 1800. Canada John was 70 years old at the time, patriarch of 10 children, eight of whom travelled with him and his wife Mary Kolb Fretz, along with the sons- and daughters-in-law and grandchildren. Again a perilous journey in wagons and on foot, and again a tragic death – John and Mary’s three-year-old grandson, who was buried in a clearing along the trail.

These two groups of pioneers founded the first Mennonite church in Canada, still called First Mennonite in Vineland, which still exists on Rittenhouse Road, just down the street from where my father grew up. He knows the church well. Although he was not raised Mennonite, he attended summer bible school there, under the direction of Bishop S.F. Coffman, whom my dad says had the best bass voice he’s ever heard. When I contacted the current pastor Carol, she was stunned to be able to tell me that she lived in my father’s childhood farmhouse for 20 years and had just sold it the day before our conversation.

This is the best part of genealogy: finding connections! And mine run deep in Niagara. From a tiny band of half a dozen or so pacifist pioneers arriving in the early 1800s, comes many of names on the Niagara Atlas of 1876. Many of these names  still dominate in Vineland and Jordon, and two of these are my direct lines.

WRITE IT SO THEY’LL READ IT

This month marks my return to running workshops from my series, “How to Write Family History and Memoir, Even if You’re Not a Writer.” I started this back in 2007, after publishing my first book, Strength Within: The Granger Chronicles, a history of my mother’s extraordinary family.

Realizing there are plenty of resources for people setting out to research their family histories – genealogy groups and historical societies abound – I focussed on what you do with all that data you end up with. Nobody wants to read through lists of dates and places and who begat whom, and I’d met plenty of passionate genealogists who were dismayed themselves by their research results.

The question is: how do you tell a story from all that data? How do you write it so people will actually read it?

I realized I could teach people how to do this. And I’m still doing it six years later! After every workshop, there’s a buzz of energy as the participants hurry out, inspired to write and armed with techniques that get them past the “but I’m not a writer” lament.

I love teaching these workshops! Who wouldn’t, with these results? This year, I’m particularly excited about getting back to the classroom, because after many years I am returning to genealogy research myself. After a long-time focus on Muskoka’s history, I’m looking into my own roots once again: the Eckhardt family of Niagara.

Like the Grangers, the Eckhardt family is extraordinary; I know that even this early into the research. In fact, every family is extraordinary; I know that from my years of teaching.

And every amateur genealogist is exactly the right person to write their family story.

INSPIRATION

I’m currently immersing myself in the Ottawa International Writers Festival. At this, Canada’s Festival of Big Ideas, I am always moved, inspired, challenged and yes, entertained by conversations with some of the world’s best thinkers and authors.

We’re part-way through the “Fall Edition” and so far I’ve:

  • spent an evening in the Songwriters’ Circle with Jim Cuddy and Greg Keillor from Blue Rodeo, hearing about the inspirations and process of creating their album, “Five Days In July”;
  • learned from Cynthia Flood, Kelli Death and Giller-nominated Lynn Coady about the creation of short fiction;
  • shared in a chat with Michael Winter and the much-acclaimed Joseph Boydon about their newest novels and the issue of being true to yourself – as a writer, and as a person;
  • become aware of the fundamental shift happening around the world regarding women, thanks to  straight-talking journalist Sally Armstrong.

What’s that creaking sound? My mind opening…

NEW DATES FOR MUSKOKA ROAD TOUR!

Back by popular demand and thanks to the promotional efforts of the Muskoka Boat and Heritage Museum, I will be conducting two more guided bus tours of the Muskoka Road!

Saturday, August 27

Saturday, September 7

Once again, we will leave from the docks in Gravenhurst and travel through the entire district, following the road that opened up Muskoka and changed it from “wild lands” to the thriving home and vacation mecca it is today.

We meet at 9am at the Muskoka Boat & Heritage Centre, and will be back by about 4:30 for a book signing and draw for a free copy of Muskoka’s Main Street: 150 Years of Courage and Adventure Along the Muskoka Colonization Road.

Tickets are still available at a cost of $20.00 per person and can be purchased by calling Muskoka Boat & Heritage Centre at (705) 687-2115.

Be sure to reserve your seat and join me for a day of history and adventure!

SECOND TOUR OF MUSKOKA ROAD

I’ve just received news that the June 9 guided tour of the Muskoka Colonization Road is sold out! But don’t despair! The organizers at the Muskoka Boat and Heritage Centre are collecting names for a second tour. Just call 705-687-2115 to add yourself to the list.

And be sure to check back here for highlights from June 9.

Hope to see you soon on Muskoka’s Main Street!

A GUIDED TOUR OF MUSKOKA’S MAIN STREET

On Sunday, June 9 I will be leading a bus tour of the Muskoka Colonization Road!

Organized by the Muskoka Boat and Heritage Centre, the tour will take us  from the docks at Gravenhurst to Washago, then north through Muskoka to just south of the Muskoka-Parry Sound border. Many stopping points will allow us a close-up view of Muskoka’s history as it unfolded along the Muskoka Road.

I get to tell all my favourite stories: the surveyors and their harrowing day jobs, the settlers who battled the Canadian Shield “farmland”, the entrepreneurs who built a transportation network of roads, steamboats and railway. We’ll stop at one of Muskoka’s best ghost towns and get refreshments at a 130-year old general store.

And that’s just after lunch!

We meet at 9am at the Muskoka Boat & Heritage Centre. Participants should bring their lunch, comfortable shoes, a camera and rain gear. Water will be provided. We’ll be back at the Heritage Centre by 5pm, where there will also be a book signing and draw for a free copy of Muskoka’s Main Street: 150 Years of Courage and Adventure Along the Muskoka Colonization Road.

Tickets are still available at a cost of $20.00 per person and can be purchased by calling Muskoka Boat & Heritage Centre at (705) 687-2115.

Step back in time and come explore with me!